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Overview of Divorce Paths
Not all divorces are the same. The path you choose affects the cost, timeline, level of conflict, and long-term relationship with your ex—especially important if you have children.
Main options:
- Do-It-Yourself (Pro Se): You handle everything without attorneys
- Mediation: A neutral third party helps you negotiate
- Collaborative Divorce: Attorneys work together toward settlement
- Traditional Litigation: Attorneys negotiate; judge decides if needed
Factors that affect your choice:
- Level of conflict between you and your spouse
- Complexity of assets and finances
- Whether children are involved
- Whether you can communicate civilly
- History of abuse or power imbalance
- Your budget
Most divorces settle without trial. Even in "litigation," 95%+ of cases settle through negotiation.
You can switch approaches if your first choice isn't working. Many couples start with mediation and bring in attorneys if needed.
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