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Why Temporary Arrangements Matter
What happens during separation often shapes the final custody order. Courts look at what's been working—so the "temporary" arrangement you establish now may become permanent.
Key reasons to be thoughtful:
- Status quo preference: Courts prefer not to disrupt what's working for children
- Establishes patterns: The schedule you follow now becomes the baseline
- Demonstrates capability: Your ability to co-parent is being observed
- Protects your rights: Giving up parenting time now may affect your final order
Don't make these common mistakes:
- Agreeing to minimal time "just for now" without understanding the implications
- Leaving the marital home without a custody agreement in place
- Assuming the final order will give you more time than you have now
- Making decisions out of guilt rather than what's best for everyone
If you're the parent leaving the family home, establish your parenting time in writing before you go. Courts notice when one parent has been absent.
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