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Assessing Your New Financial Reality
Divorce fundamentally changes your financial picture. Before you can plan forward, you need to understand where you stand now.
Take inventory:
- Income: Your salary, support received, investment income, any other sources
- Assets: What you received in the divorce—cash, investments, retirement, property
- Debts: What you're responsible for—mortgage, credit cards, loans, etc.
- Monthly expenses: What your actual costs are now (housing, utilities, food, transportation, etc.)
Key questions to answer:
- Is your income enough to cover your basic expenses?
- Do you have an emergency fund?
- Are you contributing to retirement?
- What debts need attention?
- How has your credit been affected?
Common financial challenges after divorce:
- Reduced household income (from two earners to one)
- Increased expenses (maintaining separate households)
- Depleted savings from divorce costs
- Lost credit history if accounts were in spouse's name
- New expenses (childcare, insurance)
Get organized:
Create a financial filing system and gather all relevant documents: bank statements, bills, retirement statements, tax returns, insurance policies.
Action Items
Create a list of all income sources and amounts
List all debts with balances, interest rates, and minimum payments
Calculate your current net worth (assets minus debts)
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